Today’s lecture is about a sickness wey dey waste a man’s life and wallet. It’s called being a “mumu.”
You are in this university to get wisdom, and a wise man knows how to spot a “mumu” mentality before it spoils his life. If you find yourself in any of these positions, my guy, it’s time to pay attention.
Signs of Man Wey Dey "Mumu" for Woman
Sign 1: You Dey "Try" to Make a Woman Happy
Many men have this wrong idea that it’s their job to make a woman happy. No, you don’t owe any woman happiness! You can only contribute to it.
The moment you feel it’s your full responsibility, you will lose yourself. You will be doing things she wants, not what is right. Women dey take advantage of this kind of thinking.
You dey do something from your heart, but for her mind, she feels like she is using you. That is why when a girl is broke, I will be afraid to date her because she will see my kindness as stupidity.
Don’t put yourself in a position where you are constantly proving your love. The relationship is not supposed to revolve around her. While you are busy trying to prove yourself, what is she doing to prove she loves you?
I saw a girl who had a boyfriend they were on break, but every time she called him, he still sent her money and took care of her. I asked her why she wasn’t settling with him, and she said,
“Anytime I want, I want to settle with him, we go come back together.”
That is a dangerous position. That girl doesn’t fear losing him, and any person who does not fear to lose you does not really love you.
Sign 2: Everybody Dey See Say She Dey Use You, But You Blind
This is a classic sign of a “mumu” man. When your friends and family dey tell you say this girl is using you, but you feel like they just want to spoil your relationship, you are heading for regret.
So many men have gone through this, and it never ends well.
Life is wisdom.
People who are not in love with a person can see the truth clearly. But love dey blind you from seeing the foolish things you dey endure.
The moment you say you no longer love that person, you go start to see all the stupid things you put up with. You were supposed to pay attention, but love made you blind.
Sign 3: You Accept the "No Sex Before Marriage" Mentality
This is a big sign of a man who is “mumu” for a woman. If a woman tells you “No sex till after marriage,” and you accept it, you need to wise up.
While you are “safe-keeping” her, other men are using her to hold body until you are ready. I am telling you the real matter going on.
If a girl tells me she dated a guy for a year and they stayed together but didn’t have sex, it’s a red flag.
I’m telling you, some people only get a break from sex with their partner when she is on her period.
She is denying it for you while giving it to others. Don’t be a fool.
That’s all for today’s lecture, students. Class is officially dismissed. Get wisdom, not excuses.
See you for next class.
