Today’s lecture is for the man who wants to protect his peace and his future. Many girls do pretend for their boyfriend, but wisdom no dey fear to see the truth.
You must learn to read the signs so you don’t waste your time or your resources on someone who is not loyal.
Here are four clear signs your girlfriend is into hookup and is just fronting for you.
4 Signs Your Girlfriend is into Hookup
1. Too Much Morality (She Gets No Calls)
You will notice that whenever she visits you, no guy will ever call her. She will not receive any suspicious calls, and she will make you feel like you are the only man in her life.
While you are happy, thinking you have a saint, she is actually pretending.
A girl into hookup knows how to put every other guy on hold. Once she leaves your place, she will start explaining to all those boys that she was in the village or at her auntie’s side.
The truth is, no matter how a girl looks in this life, she will always have at least one boy who disturbs her apart from you.
A girl who genuinely loves you will not fear a little bit of jealousy; she will let you know that other people want her.
If you don’t experience this—if there are no calls from strange people when she’s with you—that girl is pretending.
2. Her Lifestyle is More Expensive Than Her Earning
Your girlfriend is living an expensive lifestyle. She travels to other cities, even by flight, she has expensive gadgets, and wigs.
But you are not the one paying for all these things, and she doesn’t have a job or a clear source of income.
My guy, how does she get money to live that kind of life?
If her lifestyle is more expensive than her source of income, she is doing hookup and pretending.
You are not buying those things for her, so you must know that she has other means of getting them.
3. Her Friends Are into Hookup
“Show me your friend, and I will tell you who you are.” The Bible said it, and it is a hard truth.
You think she is innocent, telling you all the time that her friends sleep around, but she doesn’t.
My guy, the possibility that she is a hookup girl is 99%.
Sometimes, your girlfriend is a better person to you because she is in a different city, and you don’t know her history.
Some of these girls’ names have already “cast” in their hometowns.
On your own, just travel to where your girl stays without her knowing, ask some questions, and you will learn a lesson for yourself.
4. She Knows Different Styles
This is another clear sign. You are her boyfriend, but she knows different styles you never even experienced before.
Who taught her all these styles if you are not the one?
Some girls pretend for their boyfriends because they are not comfortable with them.
They will be afraid you will judge them.
But the moment they are around people they are comfortable with, they can go to the craziest lengths ever.
Don’t be a fool. The “good girl” you think you have is someone else’s playground.
That’s all for today’s lecture, students. The truth will set you free. Get wisdom, not excuses.
See you for next class.
