Today’s lecture is for the students who want to build a valuable life. Success is not just about the money you make; it’s also about the person you choose to share your life with.
If you want to avoid unnecessary pressure and focus on your growth, you must learn to spot these four types of girls and stay away from them.
4 Types of Girls You Should Never Date
1. Student Girl
My guy, avoid dating student girls. Many of them are very, very entitled. The truth is, most of them don’t have just one boyfriend; they get one for school and another one back home because they always need money.
They are not working, so they are always looking for different people to call for help with their bills.
And because many of them are fighting for their lives in school, they think any man in their life is supposed to be contributing, which is not true.
You will see parents with their daughters asking for rent or bills, and the parents will respond, “Don’t you have a boyfriend?”
As a man, why do you expect your age mate to have that kind of money, when your 50-plus father cannot carry that responsibility?
These student girls will put pressure on you, pressure you don’t need if you want to grow.
If you want your girlfriend to graduate, instead of dating a student you have to sponsor, why not find a graduate?
Girls do graduate every year. Find a lady who has already graduated and date her instead of training a woman to go to school.
2. Hook-up Girl
Do not date hook-up girls. It is not right. The kind of emotional and mental damage a person must have to be doing hook-ups is on another level. Those girls are damaged goods.
You see that kind of damage? It is that level that will make a person carry a gun and stand on the road to rob people. They are not morally upright.
My guy, there are so many women in this world. Why would you date a hook-up girl who stands for the road?
The worst part is that all the money they collect, they use it for things that don’t last, like an iPhone or an expensive hair.
That lifestyle is normal for her, so even if you marry her, if money is tight, she can still go back to that life.
Let them go and face their consequences.
3. Baby Mama
A baby mama is not for you, especially if you are a young man just starting your life.
Why would you date a baby mama? She does not love you more than the man she gave birth for.
Do you know how long it takes for a woman to carry a pregnancy for nine months for a man?
After all that, she will now be claiming she does not love that person and that she loves you instead.
Sometimes, ask questions. No sensible man will be happy to not be with the girl who birthed his child or to abandon her and his child.
4. Girl Who Keeps Multiple Boys
Any girl who knows different types of boys should never be dated. They are friends with plenty of boys—10 boys, 20 boys, and they are very close to all of them.
She will tell you that she doesn’t like to be friends with other girls because of “girls drama” or gossip.
Do not join that her list of boys.
Business partners are different; we are talking about casual friends here.
These types of girls love to compare because they know so many boys.
They know guys who drive fancy cars and live in good apartments.
But when it’s time for someone to carry her cross, they will be putting all the tasks on you.
Don’t date them. Let them go and find a boyfriend among all those boys they know.
Lecture Concluded
That’s all for today’s lecture, students. Don’t let unnecessary drama and entitlement distract you from your mission. Get wisdom, not excuses.
See you for the next class.
